When I hear about a girl's man, I'm assuming we probably shouldn't be on that date period.

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You don't want him to think you expected it." —Josh F."The food you choose on dates says volumes about your character.

Dainty foods (read: salads) seem to have a low correlation to fun and enjoyment.

That way you can get a feel for what he's normally like around his buddies and it'll let you both relax a bit more.

You can tell a lot about someone by who they surround themselves with." —Corey O."I like when a girl gets physical with me, but not in the sexual sense. I love when she'll touch my arms or something like that as we're talking.

I like it best when someone can counter me with questions of their own." —Noah A."Don't hate on other girls.

I actually had one girl, while we were in the middle of a conversation, look over at another girl and say, 'Eww, look at that girl's dress.' The way she said it sounded so bitchy and I wasn't into it at all. The guy will almost always hold the door open, pay for dinner, etc., but it's still nice to hear a thank you and know that it's all appreciated. I've almost come to stop expecting them so it's especially nice when I hear them.

It shows me that she's genuinely interested in spending time with me as opposed to wanting to be wined and dined regardless of who she's with." —Nate N."If the guy doesn't say something and take the check off the table to pay, it's probably fair to assume that you're going Dutch.

There are different reasons that a guy might not pick up the tab (some that might not have anything to do with you), but if you're into him, avoid looking too disappointed.

If you want something, be specific and avoid causing yourself unnecessary stress.

We're usually pretty open to new ideas." —Adrian B."Please don't critique or be too harsh about someone's sexual performance the first time you hook up with him.

I don't want to pick up a saved video game: I'm here to start new." —Orlando O."I always appreciate the offer to split the check, even though I never allow it.