Establishing a presence as an intelligent, dominant person will go far to bring you to the attention of the intelligent, PICKY subs as a Domme worth having.

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Always be Respectful, Manners count everywhere in life..!!! Remember everyone has their own lives, lifestyles, and fetishes; please be respectful to everyone's opinions. NO Lurking (not joining in on chat) lurkers will be removed (at least say hello). NO cyber (online sex) in the Lounge, please use the Dungeon or take it privately Males impersonating females Dominants will not be tolerated and will result in immediate bans. This chat is open to Dominant women, and male submissive only, female submissive are most welcome if they serve, or wish to serve in a Femdom relationship. Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Money or financial Domination, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another, Topics intended to inflame, or defame.

Those not doing so will be suspended, this is non revocable. Only one profile per person, multiple profiles will result in bans. **Please note: if you are in breach of the rules you may or may not be given a warning prior to being banned. When you enter on line chat rooms, don't kneel, lower your eyes, or greet ONLY the Dommes in the rooms.

Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.

Don't offer to submit to the first Domme who talks to you.

Pass worded rooms are invite ONLY, passwords will only be given out by the room owner when necessary. Note this is a Femdom BDSM chat; Male Dom and Male Switches will not be tolerated.

Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.

DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!

" or "What would you do to me if I were your sub." We don't do fantasy fodder wank material. What he is doing is working, he has the Dommes attention. I am a little confused by the subs who come in saying they are not worthy, if your not worthy why would a Domme want you?

Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.

1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.

Think about whether you would like this person if you had to actually be WITH them.