After dating an athletic banker with model good looks for two years, Sonali Chitre, 34, has sworn off hotties.

In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages.

In another, women were asked to judge the attractiveness of 238 men based on their high school yearbook photos from 30 years ago.

“I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.” He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.

“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says.

“When men get to a certain age, they realize that it’s important to meet a life partner that they connect with,” she says.

“Looks fade.” Some great-looking people say they’re given a bad rap unfairly.

“From my personal experience, people who are better looking are less likely to pursue advanced degrees, or play an instrument or learn other languages,” says Benedict Beckeld, a 37-year-old Brooklyn writer with a doctorate in philosophy and the body of an Adonis.

But he’s quick to note that he’s not just a great set of abs — he also plays the violin and speaks seven languages.

Unlike the square-jawed bachelors who disrespected her, Argese is more boy-next-door in the looks department. “He’s not a model, but he’s so much more attractive in who he is as a person,” Young says.