At least getting one woman after another into your bed, is really easy, even if you’re quite ugly!For some reason Japanese women seem to find even ugly foreign guys attractive …..

Because of all that I’ve seen couples who got divorced, even when there were kids involved.

I noticed that those kind of relationships seem to work out better if they live in his home country and not in Japan.

The man only gets a small allowance every week or month and needs to ask his wife for permission if he wants to spend any more of his own hard-earned money!

Foreign guys often seem to struggle with this system.

For some guys it really gets to their heads and they start bragging about it like crazy as part of the superstar syndrome.

The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan.It is by far not impossible and I know quite a few girls who don’t only have a Japanese boyfriend, but are also married to a Japanese man, but it is still the BIG exception!Some of us will go through a hard time here in Japan. Before we start talking about “Dating in Japan” one thing should be crystal clear: If you’ve ever been to Japan you might have noticed that there’s a tremendous number of (often not so handsome) foreign guys walking hand-in-hand with Japanese women. However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!It might be a bit more difficult if you’re looking for a serious relationship as there are those women I mentioned earlier who either want you as “exotic accessory” or just want your DNA to create a cute “half-child”.