If she doesn’t like your choice of venue, then make up for it in the interaction.

If the venue is more important to her than spending time with you, she’s not a keeper.

The conversation will flow easier and far more naturally if you really listen instead of thinking ahead of yourself for the next thing to say!

Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.

Yes, all is lost by the end of most first dates, and there is little hope for men to correct these issues . Many of these professionals have been helping men just like you for years and years; so believe in what they say. When your intentions are clear, your meeting will be purposeful.

Follow their steps, and your next first date will go great! Posturing some “better” version of whom you’d like to present is misleading to your date and sets the wrong tone for future interactions.

Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) is a bestselling author and relationship expert specializing in today’s evolving forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Bathe or shower within three hours before your date; 9. Never spend more than approximately $25.00 on a woman for your very first date with her; 3.

Ideally, you should engage in at least one lengthy (thirty minutes minimum) phone conversation with a woman prior to your first formal ‘date’ with her; 2.

Similar to #2, never discuss any subject matter on a ‘first date’ that is not relevant to helping you determine if the woman you are on the date with is ‘long-term girlfriend material.’ Alan Roger Currie is a professional dating coach and author of ‘Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking’ and ‘Oooooh . For more information, visit Currie’s page or his website, Instead of just asking what someone does for a living or what their favorite film is, finding out why they do what they do or why they like that film will get them to reveal more about their personality and create a deeper connection.

Go to your date armed with some fun conversation ice-breakers and stories about yourself to share too. And remember to really listen to what your date is telling you about themselves.

If it becomes apparent that she is not impressed with your choice of venue, smile confidently and say to her: “This is not your kind of place, is it?

” Remember this should come across more like a statement than a question.

Guys build up the occasion in their mind for days or weeks beforehand, only to be severely let down after the fact.