Dating unsure of relationship
Dating in itself is a very personal and sophisticated matter. According to Lynne P., an American living in Germany, ” …
It starts off with infatuation and goes through several stages along the way.
And these stages are like tests that check your compatibility with each other.
You have long conversations with your partner that stretches late into the night, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you.
You talk about each other’s families, exes, likes and dislikes and other innocent secrets, and life seems so beautiful and romantic. This stage usually forces its way into a happy romance after a few months of blissful courting.
You don’t expect your man to buy you flowers, but he does. At the same time, you expect him to pick you up from the airport on time. You have your own expectations from an ideal partner.
But he arrives an hour later because he forgot all about picking you up. And in this stage, both of you try hard to mould each other to fit your own wants in a perfect partner.
In this stage, the relationship cruises along perfectly and both of you may be blissfully happy with each other.
Almost always, this is the stage when both of you feel like a perfect match. This happy stage is also the stage of attachment when both of you truly feel connected to each other and love each other intensely.
Go wrong anywhere along the way, and your relationship will take the brunt of the fall.
Have you ever met a couple who seemed like they were going to stay together forever, but ended up breaking up a few years later?
Being an American, she has unique experience of successful dating and communicating with a German.