It’s best to not follow the girls you message until she’s at least being somewhat responsive.

If you get her number and chat a bit then you can reward her with a follow and this also works as a good way to spark up the conversation later on. Tag the city, the neighborhood, the country, and whatever dumb popular quote that people are saying at the time like “#viewsfromthe6’ or whatever Drake tells you is cool. This is arguably just as important as your pictures, if not more so.

You can follow Instawhore accounts like TFM Girls, Hottest of EDM, and Barstool Smokeshows that feature girls from different colleges you can message, but the response rate is very low since they are getting blown up by hundreds of guys once they get featured. If you follow these types of accounts, go back several months and message one of the featured girls from 3-4 months ago or longer.

it so don’t use that as an excuse if you don’t have it. You’ll just have to take my word that I got her number and made sweet love to her within 5 minutes of meeting her.

I was proud of myself for managing to get the number after she ignored me twice, but also disappointed in myself for being a loser and double texting two times.

Currently, read receipts cannot be turned off in Instagram DM.

But she can still see a preview of your message in her inbox without actually opening it which would deliver the read receipt to you.

Just remember that any form of online game whether through dating apps or through social media should never be your only source of dates.

Instagram can be a decent way to tap into those elusive 9s and 10s that are overwhelmed on Tinder and never match with you because you get lost in the shuffle.I’m talking about the update that allows Direct Messaging (DM) without having to send a picture first (I think this went into effect September 2015).Most of the Instagram game advice that exists today is outdated and tells you to comment on her pictures, follow her, or send her a picture or meme as the first message (because back then you had to).Pro Tip: Worried your friends will wonder how you got 50,000 followers overnight and call you out on it?Create a separate “famous” Instagram account that none of your friends will ever know about!Hopefully you like them because it took me forever to blur their names and format these for optimal viewing.