On Craigslist you'll find dozens of ads, many so blatant that soldiers put the term right on the subject line, not even trying to hide it.If you're married in the military, you make more money and get better benefits.

Now he says he will comit suicide so that the Taliban will kill him.

I told him if he loved his kuds, he wouldn’t hurt them.

He has been telling her that he will be coming to see her when he can get a leave.

Also, she should be getting a verification number shortly from the base , and then she will be gettting his leave money as he has put her down as his next of kin.

This is the first time I have ever done anything like this and I am not sure its real. They make more money when they are deployed than when they are stateside and generally have less expenses.

Is there a way to find out if this person is really in the Army? Also, almost every post in Iraq and Afghanistan has MWR phone lines available where the soldiers can call home at no charge.

I am to send a e-mail requesting to get connected with him, he said there is a fee and then all calls are free.

He also mentioned something about registering and then I can request for him to get leave. When soldiers are overseas, there is no reason for other people to be paying for their communication.

There is also no reason for you to request for him to get leave. The Army is not going to recognize a leave request from a civilian. In almost all cases, he has access to the internet as well as phones through the MWR in both Iraq and Afghanistan.