I work with guys just like you to magnetically attract women, increase their confidence, and become the man girls really want.

Sloppiness is not only a turn-off but also a potential deal breaker.

Some shortcuts like “np at all” are okay but “kk can’t wait 2 c u 2nite” is excessive.

Of course, there’s a fine line between socializing and stalking.

More than two-thirds of respondents said they had Googled dates before meeting in person, and once the relationship blossomed, 72% of women said they had inspected their new partner’s ex-girlfriends’ Facebook pages.

If she takes an hour to respond, just give it a few minutes before messaging her back.

Unless she’s working the graveyard shift, texting her randomly at four in the morning won’t look good.

But regardless of what they said they believed about digital communication hastening sex, only 38% of women said they had actually slept a partner sooner than they otherwise would have, because of a textual relationship.

(More on Time.com: 5 Little-Known Truths About American Sex Lives) In any case, the survey found that most communication between couples is now happening by text instead of phone: men said they texted 39% more often than they called, and women reported texting 150% more often than phoning.

I’m positive whatever you have to say can wait until the next day.

Also, if you’ve had a heavy night of drinking, be cautious of what you’re writing. You probably shoot the shit and ask the occasional question.

A girl loves to see her phone buzz and read a text from you that’s cute, intriguing, and makes her laugh.