When I saw the first episode of season 2, like all of you, I was struck by the tragic beauty of a lone Ray J sitting in his private jet where even the glow of the sunset offers little comfort to a lonely R&B singer.

We all know what it's like to be consumed by our loneliness when the only thing we have to mask our tear-stained eyes is a 0 pair of sunglasses.

Having these girls with him will not slow down his lifestyle, he will continue to be Ray J - bringing the girls with him to the hottest spots in LA to Sin City to meet his famous friends and even to meet his family.

The simple fact is, the women in his circle - the social climbers, gold-diggers, and groupies - are with him for all the wrong reasons.

Ray J wants to break away from these types of girls and find that unique lady capable of restoring his faith in women.

Ray J spent a few months giving all types of women a chance to be his "ride or die chick".

For two seasons Ray J brought the finest girls from around the country to his mansion in the Hollywood Hills and put them through challenges, dates, and eliminations to find the ladies that are smart, funny, and beautiful enough to survive the cut.

Ray J wanted to give love a chance, and poured his heart and soul into it.

He knew he couldn't do it on his own so he hit up VH1 and told them he wanted to do a show like his boys Flavor Flav and Bret Michaels…but he wanted to do it the Ray J way - cool, young, and sexy as hell.However, any feelings of apprehension in Ray J quickly gave flight as his emotional reaction in the solitude of his chambers gave testament.Ray could barely contain his heart's feeling of triumph as he beamed like a 10 year old boy upon receiving his much desired video game on a chilly Christmas morn. As Ray J begins yet another search for his one true partner in life, will the gift that he unwraps in the end be the one that finally makes this hollow man whole?Ray J will bring fourteen (nineteen in season two) of the finest girls from around the country to his mansion in the Hollywood Hills and put them through challenges.dates and eliminations to find the ladies that are smart, funny and beautiful enough to survive the cut.Being in the business for long as Ray J has forced him question whether true love is possible.