I was recently blindsided by my husbands sex addiction, am about 3 weeks post confrontation……….

For background, I am a recovering alcoholic, have been sober almost 2 years.

And then he did two things that sent red flags up for me.

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After all, this has been my lifelong dream and at 31, I’m not getting any younger. But the truth is he made me the happiest I’ve ever been. Looking back, I feel like there were little signs that should have been red flags: -I swear I saw him looking at personals on Craigslist but I didn’t say anything -He had no boundaries with people.

I asked J to be out (he is currently living at a hotel) and now I am managing a 3BR, 2 ba house by myself and I am also taking care of our pets. I asked J to tell me the truth and I asked how many, how long. He was constantly getting other girl’s phone numbers and adding them on Facebook.

We have never had a healthy sex life, until my sobriety.

Fast forward to 2 years ago, I stopped drinking, began therapy, became more in touch with me and living my life in the present and commenced on a road of gratitude and appreciation for the blessings in my life.

Then 2 weeks ago, I came into the bedroom after a long evening of studying.

J was on his i Phone (the thing was GLUED to his hand at all times) and I noticed he quickly turned off the screen. And there was NO reason for me to suspect anything at all.I married my husband because I thought he was safe.I knew he loved me more than I loved him, and knew he would never leave me.He said 2 1/2 years (so before we started dating) and over 30. I thought nothing of it — I really trusted him with all my heart. At first, it was amazing, but it dropped off very fast.How could this have been going on our entire relationship? There was always some explanation — they were a girl in his class (he is studying to be a NP), a girl he worked with, someone he met who wanted to be a nurse… We didn’t have sex for 2 weeks before or after our wedding, including the wedding night.To say I was a good wife prior to my sobriety would be a lie, I was not in so many ways.