I never knew why I had these feelings and desires, and I grew up like many of you did, feeling there was something wrong with me or worse, feeling I was alone and possibly the only person on this planet that had this fetish..

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So if I would have been asked in a survey which vegetables I liked, the list would have been very short. Even vegetables that used to make me want to throw up, like onions, I now enjoy.

The point I am trying to make is that our tastes change, and something that we might not have liked or even hated in the past, we now love today, or at least find tolerable. If presented properly to an adult it could turn into an enjoyable experience.

I will say however that if you have recently found yourself single, give yourself some time before jumping back on the dating bandwagon.

You won’t be in the right state of mind to be making important emotional decisions.

So let’s say you’ve met someone and have been going out a number of times, and you can feel this is going to turn into a relationship. Well, if spanking is something you must have in a relationship, now would be a good time.

You don’t want to get heavily involved with a person and be going out for months, and then find out there is no possibility of it working out. This may sound harsh to some, but think about it for a second.

Now for this article I won’t go into the basics of dating and meeting people because I’m sure many of you are probably better at this then me.

If not there are plenty of websites that cover this topic and can offer lots of tips.

So please don’t think that when you go out looking for a spanking partner your chances will be very low in finding one, because they are not.