If you didn’t have to worry about money or a job, where would you live in the world? What was the last book that you got so absorbed in that you couldn’t put it down? You only get 3 words to describe yourself – what are they? Which is better to listen to – your heart or your brain?

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Does this thought excite you or does it make you feel like you just digested a can of the before mentioned Play-Doh? And you need to have your own identity beyond your spouse. If you don’t want to become like the person you’re dating, should you be dating?

If you can just get your hair, abs, complexion, and clothes just right, then The One will scamper to you like a squirrel to a nut factory. Sure appearance might catch someone’s eye, but it’s personality, values, faith, heart, past, present, and future that’s going to make them stay.

How do you deal with people in your life that you don’t like? What’s the funniest thing that happened in your childhood?

What actor would play you in a movie about your life?

If you had to give me a nickname right now on the spot, what would it be? Do you think it’s possible that we met in a previous life?

How would you describe me to someone who doesn’t know me?

Not all values are the same and sometimes you can have two very good people with very good values, but those values can feel at war with each other.

As I wrote in “If your core values can’t dance together, then you’ll keep tripping, falling and wondering why you can’t move together in rhythm.” For example, you could have a high value for responsibility and the person you’re dating could have a high value for risk.

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